There are many different types of adult toys available, so you and your partner are sure to find something that suits you both. Sex toys can add spice and excitement to the bedroom relationship, especially if you have been together for a long time. You don’t need to use toys every time you make love, but having a variety of them available to you can help you to both enjoy sex more often.
Sex toys often allow people to play out a fantasy with their partner. Some will enhance foreplay and others make the sexual orgasm experience more intense. You can choose sex toys that help you to play out a fantasy, such as a roleplay situation. Some toys give specific pleasure to men, others give pleasure to women and some are even unisex so that both partners can use the sex toy to give pleasure to each other.
Before you introduce a sex toy into your relationship, you should discuss it first with your partner. Make sure your partner feels as comfortable with the idea as you do. Discussing it first can help reduce any inhibitions and can add anticipation to the excitement mix. You can even shop online together for toys that you will both enjoy in your relationship.
Men often love a cock ring – a sex toy that fits snugly around the base of the man’s penis, heightening the sexual experience and making the man experience a deeper, longer lasting orgasm. Women who love to get clitoris stimulation will love a butterfly vibrator. This vibrator is more like a sex toy than a traditional vibrator, as the women wears it like a belt or attaches the straps to her thighs, leaving her hands free to play with her partner. The butterfly vibrator sits neatly onto the clitoris and leaves the vagina area free for penetration, so the man can penetrate the vagina while the woman enjoys continual clitoris stimulation, leading to multiple orgasms for the woman.
Lesbians will often use a dildo, giving the effect of vagina penetration without having all the disadvantages of having a man in the room. Other couples find that the man loves to use a dildo or vibrator to penetrate his woman while watching the waves of pleasure take her over as part of the foreplay. Using a sex toy like this gives the man full control and he can give pleasure to his woman without coming too soon himself and ruining the lovemaking experience. Vibrators often give women much pleasure and the partner can move the vibrator in and out of the vagina to tease the woman into enjoying the experience far more.
Sex toys are fun to use with consenting adults. They add spice, excitement, and interest to the lovemaking experience, as well as making multiple or deeper orgasms possible. Sex toys can make sex better for both partners.